Your best friend from pre kindergarten is finally getting married to her high school boyfriend and you have been asked to be included in the bridal party as one of her bridesmaids or your cousin sister is tying the knot to her boyfriend of four years and even though you are excited and thrilled for the event to take place, you eventually start wondering and worrying about playing the role of a bridesmaid well and offering your best friend help to the best of your efforts.

If you’re in a similar situation and you’re anxious about fulfilling the role of a bridesmaid and being the shoulder your best friend can lean on, do not worry about a thing because this fool proof guide will give you a number of tips that you can use to become the best bridesmaid ever.

Pre wedding chores

Planning and organizing a wedding is a great ordeal and it takes a village of people to put together so your best friend will definitely need all of the help she can get in this area so be sure to lend a hand and play an active role in organizing and planning the big day regardless of whether it means having to run around town to pick up her foil wedding invitations or save the date cards. However, this does not mean that you will have to take on the weight of all of the chores to your shoulders and play a one man game when it comes to organizing and planning. You should encourage your best friend to split the chores between everyone who is willing to help so that everything will get done faster and there will be someone accountable and to check on each and every chore.

Shoulder to lean on

Pre wedding jitters is nothing that a glass of bubbly or three and a heart to heart conversation cannot fix so be prepared with some of your best advice and a box of tissues to be the shoulder that your best friend can cry on and express her worries. Brides often experience pre wedding jitters thanks to all of the chores and the stress of planning and organizing a wedding fingerprint tree and they also get triggered by the weight of the decision they are about to make so be ready to offer some kind words and a shoulder to cry on whenever your

Be a team player

There are times when arguments between other bridesmaids and people involved in the wedding planning process and the bride will step on your nerves but remember to calm throughout these times and do not underestimate the possibility of butting heads with your best friend of many years so it is always best to remind yourself that it is her day and also to think of what being in such a high stress situation does to a person.